Sometimes There Are No Miracles
You may recall that I wrote about a lovely young lady named Julia here and here. Julia has cancer and even though there have been many prayers lifted in her behalf and her parents and doctors have done everything in their power to help her be healed, well, sometimes healing just cannot happen. Sometimes there are no miracles. The doctors have told Julia’s family that they do not think she is going to get better. And so they have had to prepare their daughter and themselves and their other children to say goodbye. And how do you do that? How do you say goodbye to your twelve year old daughter so early…so long before you should have to? How do you understand and help your child to understand that sometimes God doesn’t answer our prayers the way we want Him to? He always answers our prayers, but sometimes the answers aren’t the ones we wish for.
Miracles do happen. Every day. And I believe there have been miracles in this situation. The outpouring of love from so many people – including so many people all over the world who don’t even know this family – the prayers that have been lifted up for this young girl. That is the miracle here – the miracle is the love we can feel for someone we don’t know. The pain and the sadness we can share with one another to make the burden a little easier. Those are the miracles. But the miracle of healing just doesn’t look like it’s going to happen this time. How you prepare yourself for that, I don’t know, but I hope that the feeling that there are so many people sharing their burden and their sadness helps just a little.
So I come to you again, to ask for your prayers, that this family may be strong, that they may somehow come out of this on the other side closer and stronger than they started, that their hearts may somehow heal in time, and that when the time comes, that Julia goes bravely and peacefully into the light, into the healing arms of her heavenly Father, where there is no more pain and no more sorrow, surrounded by love.


